What Is Love, Really?

By Gaurav Nardia • 12.SEP.2026

I've seen many people in relationships who are very wrong about love. They think being physical is love.

Even I've seen many people saying that

Love vagrah kuch nhi hota, ladkiyo pe trust mat kro. she will leave you as soon as she finds better than you. So just mje lo (sex) or mst raho.

Bro, Really ?

According to me, love is not all about sex or physical intimacy.

It's about understanding each other's thoughts/feelings. It's about respecting each-other.

Love is about

when you sit together and tum bhot khushi feel krte ho, tumhare pet me gudgudi ho, feels like titliya udd rahi ho. tumhara haath uske haath me ho and just tum andar hi andar muskuraye jaa rhe ho.

You're just happy that she is sitting with you. Even if you both are not talking each other. Just sitting. That feeling, that feeling is so pure.

That feeling is truely love.

And you said, she will leave you as soon as she finds better than you.

Yes bro, she will leave you.

Because you're not understanding her feelings, her thoughts. You're not respecting her time. You're not talking to her with love.

You're trying to show her You're an alpha male.

You're trying to show her

Ki tum chali gyi toh mujhe kuch fark nhi pdega. I don't care about you and tum har time apne apko usse uper/best dikhane ki koshis karte ho.

If you behave like this and don't understand her then she will definitely leave you.

And You think you're an Alpha Male ? Bhai maine bhot se so called alpha males ko rote/gidgidate dekha hai. Ye alphaness breakup nhi hota tabhi tak dikhti hai.

So stop getting influenced by your friends and social media and focus on making your relationship better.